Comments on: Boy Girl friendship! http://www.ayosays.com/boy-girl-friendship/ from a lady's perspective Tue, 11 May 2010 18:30:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Aiah http://www.ayosays.com/boy-girl-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-25 Aiah Wed, 06 Jan 2010 22:37:50 +0000 http://www.ayosays.com/?p=42#comment-25 I'll take with ur advice then :P You seem a great couple :) Allah y7fazkom I’ll take with ur advice then :P

You seem a great couple :) Allah y7fazkom

]]> By: Ayo http://www.ayosays.com/boy-girl-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-24 Ayo Wed, 06 Jan 2010 22:09:59 +0000 http://www.ayosays.com/?p=42#comment-24 hehehe please feel free to speak your mind... everyone should have friends from both genders, as long as you keep a few barriers as you said. but about friendship turning into something more, don't always reject them, because that is how i met my husband. We were best friends and then it turned into what we are today. you never know who you're destined to be with =D hehehe please feel free to speak your mind… everyone should have friends from both genders, as long as you keep a few barriers as you said. but about friendship turning into something more, don’t always reject them, because that is how i met my husband. We were best friends and then it turned into what we are today.

you never know who you’re destined to be with =D

]]> By: Aiah http://www.ayosays.com/boy-girl-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-23 Aiah Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:52:52 +0000 http://www.ayosays.com/?p=42#comment-23 Well, For me, I have a lot of male-friends... I find it great... I treat them in da same way I treat my girl friends in... With some exceptions. But still, I'm not with hanging out with a male friend alone for more than once... sometimes it happen, like a random hang out... but not to manage for such a thing frequently... I don't mind group-hanging out... They're much better and comforting. About late night phone calls, I'm against them at all levels. I'm not in relation but yet, I still think that it won't be okay with even a guy wants to ask me for a serious relation. I'm trying my best to be conscious. Because in anyway, after breaking the limits it'll bring out some bad consequences and we'll be losing this friendship most of the time. I still have a lot in mind, but I guess it's enough for today :P Well,
For me, I have a lot of male-friends… I find it great… I treat them in da same way I treat my girl friends in… With some exceptions.
But still, I’m not with hanging out with a male friend alone for more than once… sometimes it happen, like a random hang out… but not to manage for such a thing frequently… I don’t mind group-hanging out… They’re much better and comforting.
About late night phone calls, I’m against them at all levels.

I’m not in relation but yet, I still think that it won’t be okay with even a guy wants to ask me for a serious relation. I’m trying my best to be conscious.
Because in anyway, after breaking the limits it’ll bring out some bad consequences and we’ll be losing this friendship most of the time.
I still have a lot in mind, but I guess it’s enough for today :P

]]> By: Ayo http://www.ayosays.com/boy-girl-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-22 Ayo Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:42:18 +0000 http://www.ayosays.com/?p=42#comment-22 so you agree with having limits, i think thats the healthiest kind of friendships. i call this playing it safe =D thank you for sharing so you agree with having limits, i think thats the healthiest kind of friendships. i call this playing it safe =D thank you for sharing

]]> By: Mohammad Badi Irshid http://www.ayosays.com/boy-girl-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-21 Mohammad Badi Irshid Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:15:26 +0000 http://www.ayosays.com/?p=42#comment-21 Actually I am not so "Shaikh" but I always think that Islam rule is the first. I always tried to find a way to get over this but it always came to be not true. I have no problem with having girl friends, talk to them and discuss but not to go out with, or to talk in things that only married couple discuss. When it become "Love" and a future plan of marriage has been announced then I think there is no problem to continue in a relation but when I feel inside that we cannot be together or marry then why to make friendship? I accept in the friendship in work or university ONLY because simply I have clear rules in my religion and society and i cannot jump over them at all. It's not about open-mind at all .. it's about life and religion. Sorry if the ideas in my comment are not mentioned that well. by the way, congratulations on your new blog.. very cool design Actually I am not so “Shaikh” but I always think that Islam rule is the first. I always tried to find a way to get over this but it always came to be not true. I have no problem with having girl friends, talk to them and discuss but not to go out with, or to talk in things that only married couple discuss. When it become “Love” and a future plan of marriage has been announced then I think there is no problem to continue in a relation but when I feel inside that we cannot be together or marry then why to make friendship?
I accept in the friendship in work or university ONLY because simply I have clear rules in my religion and society and i cannot jump over them at all.
It’s not about open-mind at all .. it’s about life and religion.

Sorry if the ideas in my comment are not mentioned that well.
by the way, congratulations on your new blog.. very cool design

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